Male organ stimulation, which is a key ingredient in maintaining proper male organ health, comes about in a variety of ways. For many men, viewing some form of exotic entertainment is one of their favorite methods of achieving male enjoyment. Often, adult entertainment is a tool for stimulatory activities, but many men would enjoy adding a little adult entertainment into the mix with their female partners. The problem is that many men fear, and perhaps with justification, that the woman (or women) in their lives would look down on them for watching erotic films, never mind asking them to be involved. But for those with a willing partner, adding adult entertainment can add a little extra spice to their bedroom repertoire.
Assess the situation.
While the popular view is that women are mortally offended by adult entertainment, this is certainly not true for all women. According to information from Brigham Young University, as many as 1 out of 3 visitors to adult web sites are women. So it's possible a lady may be more "into" the idea of exotic viewing than she lets on.
If a woman has made comments that clearly indicate she believes adult entertainment to be unworthy of respect and attention, it's probably a good idea to steer clear of asking her. But if she has not made her feelings known, a man should look for clues about her feelings. In a best case scenario, he should go ahead and make his own positive experiences with adult entertainment known and ask her how she feels – but he should also realize that in some instances, this honesty may bring about a difficult time in or an end to the relationship.
If a woman has an interest in adult entertainment, a man should then find out where their tastes and experiences overlap. If she has only made small forays into the world of adult entertainment and he is a connoisseur, it may be prudent not to jump into some of the more heavy duty or unusual viewing experiences. Also, a man should find out whether there is a preference for movies/videos, still photographs, or erotic literature. Once all this is established, the man and woman can move forward.
Start slowly but then experiment.
Most couples may want to start slowly. For example, they may put in a DVD or pull up a computer video, lie back in each other's arms and just indulge in mutual stroking as they watch the onscreen antics of the actors.
Paying attention to how the woman reacts is important. A man can then decide if a little dirty talk is appropriate, and if so what kind: Should it focus on commentary related to what is happening on screen or should it be more personal, comparing (favorably, of course) your partner's attributes to those of the hot kitten onscreen?
Many couples prefer to use adult entertainment strictly for mutual self-pleasuring sessions, but others like to use it as foreplay, leading to intimate contact. For those who move beyond the solo play, adult entertainment can be an excellent way of introducing new positions into their sensual lives by copying what they see onscreen.
After the interlude is over, the man should make sure to be attentive to his partner; while discussing the adult entertainment is appropriate, it should always be in the context of how it makes him appreciate his real life partner.
Using adult entertainment with a partner to achieve maximum male organ stimulation can often result in a sore male organ, so employing an exceptional male organ health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) is essential. Letting a partner rub in a cream that includes a superior emollient like shea butter will both soothe the sore male organ and strengthen the bond between the partners. And a man that selects a cream that also includes vitamin A is showing his respect for his partner, as vitamin A has anti-bacterial properties that help reduce male organ odor, a turn-off for many women.
Visit http://www.man1health.com for additional information on most common male organ health issues, tips on improving male organ sensitivity, and what to do to maintain a healthy male organ. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.